What We Really want in the Bedroom

What We Really want in the Bedroom

When it comes to what goes on in the bedroom, what men and women want is at times completely the opposite of each other.

A male mind is more in tune with sexual desires and pure physical pleasure, while women may be in search of more of an intimate and deeper connection. This is of course not always the case, but between the two sexes there are a few differences, and while men may be fixated on improving their size through male enhancement they may be surprised to learn that their lover may not be all that concerned about the area down there.

In fact, through many polls and extensive research, experts agree that in the field of sexual relations in regards to male enhancement, that to the majority of women size is not the biggest issue. It appears that this is mostly a hang up of men brought on by other males and what could be coined ‘locker room talk’.

What we want in the bedroom

So what exactly do women want if it’s not male enhancement related?

Well, that can be as simple, or complex, as putting her at ease and making her feel comfortable. Women like to feel appreciated and loved, and to many the act of sex goes far beyond a purely physical act. If a man can demonstrate his love and tender feelings to a women, this can go much further than any male enhancement measure. Telling her how you feel, establishing trust, and caressing her before the actual act are all measures to create more satisfaction from love making from a woman’s point of view.


Instead of rushing into sex, foreplay is a big factor in setting up the fireworks to follow. To a woman, the act of sex is not a single show, but an entire process to be enjoyed. Women like to be romanticized and coaxed into the bedroom, and no amount of male enhancement can replace that.

We like to feel wooed, and by taking your time you can win us over under the sheets. That’s not to say that women don’t have a physical appetite as well, and when it comes to the that there are a few things men should know that have no bearing on male enhancement.

For one, timing does count; you shouldn’t rush it before she has a chance to orgasm. Yet at the same time, don’t take too long and draw it out just for show; sometimes there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. And when it comes to exploring the northern regions, expand upon solely the nipples. Women are sensitive across the whole breast region, and you would do well to keep that in mind.

So before you start obsessing only on your own size and if you need male enhancement or not, figure what your lady’s needs and desires are first.


Austin Hanson

After finishing a master degree in Urology at the European University in St. Petersburg, Austin cofounded staustinreview.com in 2015. The purpose of the website is to help men with a wide variety of sexual problems with a language that everybody understand. Austin is a dedicated writer and loves to get his hands dirty with product reviews and the latest urology news. Outside of work his an outdoors person who loves fishing and running, you can follow Austin on Twitter or LinkedIn if you can keep up with him!

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